Pet your dogs.
Drink some tea or coffee or whatever starts your day-watch the sunrise.
Commit to creating the best day possible-to becoming the best version of your self possible.
Eventually, someone will come along living the best version of their self, and you just may find harmony with each other in living the best version of life together.
But if no one should come along, be ok with working to become the best version of your self. You will still have succeeded in creating the best of you to offer-there is abundant joy and truth in that kind of freedom.